Our Coaching

Do you have the kind of relationship you want? Would you like to re-ignite the spark in your relationship to call in more vibrancy, play and magic?

We coach couples to create / recreate vibrant, alive, electric relationships, to explore and break up stuck patterns that are sourced in the subtle energetics of the relationship, and to access the magic in everything that relationship has to offer. In short, we help couples play the relationship game so that both people can win.

Each coaching package is personalized. It starts with an “IgniteYourRelationship Exploratory” session. In this session, we help each of you connect with your desires for your relationship and find out what gets in your way of manifesting your desires. This session gives us more of an idea of whether we can help you.

The next phase of our coaching package usually consists of about 4 paid sessions to help each of you let go of past resentments that may be clouding your relationship. Generally, in every relationship, each person does not share all of their thoughts and judgments about what their partner said or did for fear of hurting them or harming the relationship. Additionally, as human beings, we withdraw from feeling too much sensation (related to strong emotions like anger, fear, sadness), for fear of being overwhelmed. Both these types of behaviors lead to residue – stuck energy from the past that is trapped in our bodies and gets in the way of us relating as our true selves. By working on our own relationship, we have developed specialized tools and exercises to help access and release these resentments. In this process, where we usually work one-on-one with each partner, we uncover subtle energetic dynamics and patterns that also get in the way of relating as your true selves.

Following this preliminary process, is a series of coaching sessions, where we are specifically coaching the relationship and each of you to access your Third. This often involves both of us simultaneously coaching both of you, as we investigate the subtle energetic patterns and offer exercises and games that you can play to help each other illuminate the pattern and what you are meant to learn from it. In so doing, you truly become each others’ partners – on each other’s side and standing for the relationship and your Third.

If this process feels like it may be a fit for you, please contact us so we can start the ball rolling.

Here is what some of our coaching clients have to say:

“We have been married over 20 years, and a few months ago we started getting coaching from Kris and Meenal regarding a sexual mindfulness meditation that we practice daily. They have consistently demonstrated deep presence and compassion in our coaching sessions, while guiding us to a fuller and clearer understanding of the issues that come up in our practice as they pertain to our relationship. Kris and Meenal never offer platitudes or easy solutions; rather they emphasize that the nature of the practice requires discipline and attentiveness in order to progress and learn.  They also offer novel suggestions and unexpected and very helpful “homeplay” ideas that have facilitated deep shifts in, and powerful insights about our relationship in a short period of time. Their balanced viewpoint, their understanding and their sense of humor have enhanced our relationship with one another. If you have the opportunity to work with Kris and Meenal, we strongly suggest you take it!” – JS and KS from Tucson, AZ

“We’ve been together 30+ years. The sessions ​with Meenal and Kris moved us forward, so that a pattern of disconnection in our sexual relationship was highlighted in a way ​we had not seen before. Meenal and Kris helped us ​consider it from a different angle​; a ​seasoned pair of eyes looking in and helping us be honest and transparent. ​They saw what we couldn’t because we were right in it. Since the sessions, our sexual relationship has moved to a deeper — and more fun — level of intimacy.  We continue to work with Kris and Meenal.” – RH and KH from Thousand Oaks, CA

“In 33 years of marriage and raising 8 children, our relational patterns had become stale, repetitive and just worn out, making it feel impossible to prevent the same old defensiveness, eruptions and misdirection. My patterns in particular were just not working, making my wife feel hopeless. We had lost sight of our foundation and the depth of love we share, bringing us to the point of needing a breakthrough. We tried a few programs but needed a personal conversation with someone who could get us back on track and lead us forward. We turned to Kris and Meenal and they led us to a breakthrough in just four sessions! They showed us how they have learned to relate, gave us real tools we could use everyday and guided us to discover the depth that we share. We are grateful! If we have anything come up again that our new patterns can’t handle, we will not hesitate to ask Kris and Meenal to guide us through.” – BM from North Carolina

If you are curious about what you might learn about yourself and what it takes to Re-Ignite the Spark your relationship with electricity, honesty and intimacy, and to become more connected with your Third, contact us for an exploratory session. Together we will craft a coaching package tailored specifically to support you.